Librarian April Cushing is head of Adult and Information Services at the Morrill Memorial Library. Read her column published in the November 21, 2019 issue of the Norwood Transcript & Bulletin.
I
never thought I’d end up marrying my former best friend’s husband.
In
their Halloween class picture, our preschoolers are standing side-by-side dressed
as Batman and a ballerina. I have photos of their son giving my youngest a
bottle, and of our six kids hanging out in the hot tub at Sugarloaf while the
guys played golf. Over the years my friend and I logged countless hours confiding
in and commiserating with each other. When both our marriages went south, I found
myself looking at Batman’s dad in a whole new light. And, evidently, vice
versa.
But
how to break the news to someone with whom you’ve shared everything from babies
to book groups that you’re about to take sharing to a whole new level? I knew
she had moved on romantically so there was no residual torch-holding, but
still.
Heart
pounding, I finally just blurted it out over the phone and braced for the
backlash.
“That’s
great, I’m so happy for you! I always thought you and Brad would be good
together.” Whoa.